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Does Technology Hurt Friendships?

February 1, 2021

Whether they’re sending texts, making video calls, or playing games online, kids are in touch with one another more than ever. And experts say that it’s definitely affecting their friendships.

Some people think computers and phones help make friendships stronger. They let kids stay in contact with each other, even while they’re social distancing.

But many people say using technology isn’t the same as being with friends in real life. And even when kids are together, they spend more time on screens than talking.

Here’s what two of our readers think.

Technology can harm friendships because you’re not connecting in the same ways as you do in person. When you communicate on screens, it’s easier to misread someone’s tone or body language. A friend might send a text as a joke that says, “You’re the worst friend ever!” But your feelings might be hurt because you think he’s serious.

Also, playing games with friends online is fun, but not as fun as playing in person.

Technology doesn’t ruin friendships. It makes them better! My best friends live in California, where I used to live. I haven’t seen them in person for three years. But we talk on Messenger Kids. Without technology, we wouldn’t be close friends anymore.

When Covid-19 hit, I thought summer would be ruined. I couldn’t see my friends. But I realized we could still FaceTime every day. It felt like they were right here with me.